There are joy and happiness in the life, also have anguish and misfortune

"Square " , square Founder, have edge angular be not controlled by person place. "Round " , pliable the ways of the world, be in harmony is connected experienced, freely of advance and retreat, do a job with skill and ease. Upright and outspoken breaks off easily, be sure to be touched head broken and bleedingly; But, if a person is smooth and slick, pliable in the extreme, always want to let others be in an unfavorable situation, oneself gain extra advantage unfairly, also be sure be utterly isolated. Accordingly, be an upright person must square outside have a circle, outside inside the circle square.

Square with round, firm with soft both meaning has internal consistency. The circle is harmonious, flexible, flexibility, reflected withy, effeminate one side; Just be individual character, stable, principle, reflected upright and outspoken, doughty one side. Be an upright person if,conduct oneself in society aid of can firm soft posture, just rise with round wisdom union, accomplish this are square, this circle is round, just arrive what degree, the circle arrives what degree, proper, that is circumference is not had hindered.

Father is in " moral classics " in say: "Qu Zequan, crooked is straight, be filled with depression, our new, get less, many be puzzled. " means says: Can bear grievance, just can conserve oneself, withstand injustice, logic ability gets unbend, low-lying can fill with instead, destitute get a new life instead, take less much instead, corrupt be obsessed with instead more. Current society, competitive aggravate.

If be on the kind that needs a person to play invariable, do not know the way of circumference, such result will is not bump into one nose ash and at job of no help. Many right people, as much to ethos of a lot of official circles also detest, but " of situation located, beg retreat cannot " , drift with the stream still wants on the face, did not do " anger is green " , not the word also is not told. This is inside square and outside round.

The agile and main show of individual character suits to go up with flexible in what conduct oneself in society for the person. Accomplish 3 " not exacting " , can. Not exacting environment. Even if in instantly society, the person always has certain limit to environmental choice however. Accordingly, should advocate active, active acclimatization, is not inactive ground, passive ground complies with an environment. Not exacting other.

There is choice, protection, him development like wanting to admit others namely individual character, habit, interest and idea the right that wait. Of course, good-tempered not be not to say a principle, however can good-tempered others. Not exacting oneself. There are joy and happiness in the life, also have anguish and misfortune, ground of be in harmony goes to hopeful circle the suffering of look upon life and painful, overcome a setback, march toward the new state of life.

Social big unit, unit small society. The unit cuts ceaseless connection with what the society always has countless ties. Can stand so that live socially, also can stand to rise in the unit. Also have exception, somebody is a hard rod socially, in the unit namely soft.