A lot of people ask me, what is is life the most difficult? I say, life is difficult is not subsist, also not be to go out alive wonderful. Because want us to come to this world only, without reason not subsist, also live badly without reason.

Life is the most difficult, it is to be in charge of oneself actually.

It is the desire that is in charge of oneself.

While god gives our life, grant us as much a trouble, that is a desire.

The desire is us to this world greedy, have incontinently, ask for everlastingly.

The desire is everybody some. For instance we expect to be able to have wide house, can have the car that oneself like. Like influence, long to gain influence, and it is power power. Like amuse oneself, longing can swim this world, watch scene infinite, every corner of alive bound keeps his foot.

Still have worse desire of course, the issue that balance of those moral bottom line that follow us hit.

The person is living, the biggest regret has countless desires to cannot come true in lifetime namely. Regret for this, somebody risk danger in desperation, go committing a crime, go rapacious, go be swept past secretly. More some people sell him soul, for little selfish desire, not hesitate build on oneself lifetime.

Be in charge of a desire, not be to say we cannot have a desire, however our desire must be restricted, the ability appearance that must follow oneself matchs.

Those dreams that we also cannot realize to death, do waking is, must not make it false appear with the appearance of ideal or desire, disturb then our normal step.

2: Run oneself mouth

The ancients Ceng Yun, out of the mouth comes evil. . This word a bit truly.

We come to the world, the trouble of one most, speak by buccal disaster.

Be in for instance the circumstance that ought not to talk, if ought not to saying. Before boss for instance the mouth does not have block, take boss to become a brother. Say before boudoir honey oneself are much more beautiful for instance, male basin friend is much better to oneself. Every this a variety of, can bury next hidden trouble to the life.

Must not thinking the mouth does not have block is individual character. A lot of people all one's life although very hard, also had had pretty good achievement and place, but because be in charge of not Pull in your ears! , him finish of a word life.

Tubal Pull in your ears! , just do not talk, still have, it is get ill by the mouth.

Modern society, everybody pays attention to preserve one's health. Because of us disease does not rise, also not dare ill. So, tubal Pull in your ears! , reduce the chance of go to the bad, also be responsible to oneself, responsible to family.

3: Those who be in charge of oneself is capricious with lazy

Person this lifetime, be afraid of be afraid of immerse oneself in hardworking. Everybody knows to bear hardships just is correct path, but everybody is afraid of bear hardships.

Can take next pain, not much.

Often hear a lot of parent example children, bear hardships ah try hard, ask blindly child grind, but the least bit however suffering also does not eat him parent to be not gotten.

It is egoistically very of evildoing, for instance chop and change, work in this today for instance, suffer bit of small grievance, find new job immediately go to another.

The surface looks is to individualize, but it is extremely harmful however to life.

Because life needs to accumulate, need one step by step the road when tamp comes. Without giving thought to which unit, do not like you to want to go presumably.

Making friend also is, before the friend, before the colleague, your capricious meeting destroys your form, let everybody feel you are cultural and insufficient, or ignores overall situation, or too it is a center with ego.

Mix egoistically lazy, it is the two big culprits of a faulty stroke in calligraphy or painting of most person trend actually, regrettablly, can be in charge of this 2 o'clock, sincerity is not much.