Domestic wind is like rain, benefit other people is silent

"The home is the smallest country, the country is ten million home " , the good home wind of two hundred and seventy-six million four hundred and forty-seven thousand two hundred and thirty-two families, ability maintains the good general mood of whole society. Every family is having respective domestic wind, as long as can from which body realizes active, health energy, it is good home wind, good home wind is breathed instruction, engrave is benefited in heart, acting generation.

" Zhu Zi treats a maxim " have: Appropriate not rain and sentimentally attached, not face thirsty and dig a well. Ji Xiaolan 4 appropriate have 4 drop: Evening of Buddhist monastic discipline rises, Buddhist monastic discipline lazy, give up costly, give up is proud; Appropriate is read frequently, appropriate respects division, appropriate to love numerous, appropriate careful feed. Wind of home of 16 words admonition has Ceng Guofan: Domestic frugal is promoted, the person is diligent criterion be good at; Can diligent can frugal, never poor and lowly. Our ancestors is done not have descendant model of such-and-such formal and gnomic home, but in a lot of detail such as parental life, action, utterance, can take the sign of wind of our home home probably.

Say according to maternal place, it is OK that the family circumstances when father is young still calculates, but the grandma contracted heavy disease later, grandfather body is feeble with each passing day also, the saving in the home spends light very quickly. The heavy burden in the home falls in entirely firm the 20 father that come forward go up personally, the elder brother's birth accentuated again undoubtedly a carring pole on his body. Father and uncle go adjoining village does help with farm work, old father does bricklayer, the uncle becomes a carpenter, dirty work, dirty work, tired work, without half complaint, income is not much, add what borrow from kin neighbour home, prop up the medical expenses of the grandma and an a few grain ration constrainedly. The grandma still had not escaped after all the evil hands of serious illness, the world left after a few years, not small brushstroke debt was owed in the home. Father and uncle are set sb's teeth as before, or dirty or bitter, or big or small, want to be able to earn only come money, dou Qin works quickly, work is increasing later, had counterjumper to follow them to work, again later, the work around is little, father goes the county pulls Cheng of a few coolie, every little bit, the debt before was being paid off eventually.

When I am small, how much didn't the condition in the home improve, I of muddled am strange very why old father is taking a flock of people to work, the condition in the home is not as good as others home. Every draw near the Spring Festival, it is person bearer is gone to in the home, sometimes old father is a few days to give evening early to return continuously, my feel puzzled. Do not know which when dot, I realize this is what circumstance after all suddenly, original project money is defaulted all the time bring about worker pay hair not to come out, every arrive the end of the year, fellow workers want wage, father is a honest and kind person, ferial in already pay for sb and expect to be repaid later is not little, can send the saving of domestic Libuduo salary to workers only right now; On the other hand, he also keeps wanting project money to each managers, allegedly those managers hide to the end of the year others of for fear that to his panhandle, ground of this not fathomless also father gave evening early to return.

The age that reached to go to school, cost of the tuition of I and elder brother, study at a school on a temporary basis, accommodation cost adds in also is not little brushstroke expense, the village also has the child discontinue one's studying of a few other peoples, and no matter the many difficulty in the home, parents never has used the idea that does not let us go to school, it is important to know because of them reading is what kind to us!

Father is long-term and outer the job, I am ferial in with the mother time is much. The mother is laborious, what in one's childhood I wear is her accept " 1000 bottoms " , the cumbersome cotton-padded trousers that plays so that cotton does with what oneself plants, patchy dress and sock; The mother is economical, eat rice bowl in not remnant half grain of rice, the steamed bread skin that fizzles out some hair denude will eat, eat steamed bread core to us, pretend always still skin path having interest; The mother chatters, but all without exception in the nag is disclosing the love to us. Improvement of the condition in the home is not little nowadays, these habits of the mother are withheld as before however, we also got she is affected more or less.

Domestic wind if rain during springtime is general, benefit other people is fine breathed, it is a kind of macerate, apply colours to a drawing, melt in the blood in every family member. Of father be in charge of taking on, hard-working, goodness is honest and kind, home of laborious, economical, love visits the home, exert a subtle influence on and affecting elder brother and me deep and abidingly.

Good quality is worth to draw lessons from with inheritance. Domestic education is spread life impression, will be mother of person father, humanness eventually we, should carry on of father generation energy, draw lessons from the life wisdom that the ancients leaves, teach by personal example as well as verbal instrution, earnestly practise what one advocates, oneself and him inheritance of good home wind gives next generation. (Wang Rufeng)

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