基督徒要学会别说这些话:
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《1、怨话》(说怨话不如多笑笑)
不要遇到一点小事,就心里抱怨上帝不公。你可以偶尔发牢骚,但不能整天抱怨,没有人喜欢整天对着一张怨妇脸。
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你要明白很多时候,抱怨是没有用的,抱怨一天远没有努力一会的收获大。所以,努力吧!将所有的抱怨与不满都化作动力,强大给这个世界看。
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凡所行的,都不要发怨言,起争论,使你们无可指摘,诚实无伪,在这弯曲悖谬的世代,作神无瑕疵的儿女。你们显在这世代中,好像明光照耀。腓2:14-15
《2、胡话》(说胡话不如多检讨)
有些人遇到点事,就爱胡思乱想,而且越想越糟糕,越想越伤心。在这种悲观情绪的控制下,很容易说出一些不经大脑的胡话。这些话对你来说,也许只是发泄,事后你根本不记得自己说过什么。
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但是,对于听者来说,则会产生极大负面影响。长久下来,谁还敢和你亲近?所以,遇事最好的解决方法是赶快找到问题所在,然后解决问题!
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凡事包容。凡事相信。凡事盼望。凡事忍耐。林前13:7
《3、闲话》(说闲话不如多做事)
嫉妒是很多人的臭毛病。有些人看到周围的人,取得好成绩、获得成功的时候,就开始议论纷纷,甚至说一些讽刺的话,什么人在他们眼里都有问题。
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这样的人不可能专注于自己的事业,而会把所有的精力都放在关注他人的一举一动上,最后伤害最大的还是自己!
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凡事不可结党,不可贪图虚浮的荣耀。只要存心谦卑,各人看别人比自己强。
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